If you’ve been with your lover for any length of time, it will come as no surprise that a relationship can go from sultry and steamy to downright stale in a matter of time. Combine that with the busy hustle of work lives, stresses from the recession and the daily tasks of having a family… suddenly romance takes a backseat to responsibility. It takes genuine effort to keep things fresh and exciting, and though nothing can mimic those first butterflies that fluttered in your belly and made your palms sweaty whenever your sweetheart leaned in for a kiss, here are some ways to bring back that feverish flush once again.
Put sexy back into your relationship
In the middle of your work day, when he least expects it, send your man a racy text message explaining just how much you miss his… [Insert your favorite thing here.] Men are extremely visual so don’t be afraid to paint a fairly graphic picture of your intentions once he is home and in your arms. Save the church talk for another time and throw in some of the four lettered variety, your mother won’t be reading this. After a few traded texts, you both will be near boiling point by the time you see each other.
Men have a little more to live up to in this area, thanks to hoards of romance novels lining shelves and nightstands across the country, but a few sexy remarks about the knock out outfit she wears that makes your knees weak and imagination run wild, and the conversation will take off from there. The ultimate goal is to express your physical (read: uncontrollable) desire for your mate.
Schedule a lewd lunch date
Arrange a lunch date with your man and meet him wearing something completely scandalous under that chic trench coat. Flash him a quick peak of the strappy business on your thigh and this meal will give delicious a whole new meaning.
Turn your bedroom into a romantic boudoir
Redecorate your bedroom into a sexy escape from reality. Having a romantic getaway from the real world is a vital and often overlooked element for a couple’s intimacy. A few carefully chosen things like new paint and bed linens is all you need for a sultry make over that will leave you both sizzling.
A sexy mindset
A few racy surprises, explicitly expressed desires, and most importantly a sexy frame of mind will add excitement and ache back into even the dullest of unions, and what better way to show your lover that you are still absolutely crazy about them… and that is always sexy.